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“The Private Money System That Funds Deals Without Asking for Money ”
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If you’re a real estate investor looking to scale your business, you’ve likely realized that access to funding is make-or-break. In a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner—the Private Money authority—and Andrew Becker peeled back the curtain on what it really takes to raise Private Money, even if you’re starting from scratch.
Below, we’ll highlight the main strategies, common pitfalls, and actionable tips shared during their value-packed conversation.
What is Private Money? Setting the Foundation
First, it’s critical to know the difference between Private Money and hard money. Jay Conner explains that Private Money comes directly from individuals—friends, family, or acquaintances—who want a safe, higher return on their idle capital compared to what they’d get from banks or the volatile stock market. These are not institutional lenders, and you’re not chasing “rich people.” Instead, you’re simply identifying everyday people with “lazy” money looking to grow.
The Secret to Raising Private Money: Diagnosis Before Pitch
The biggest mistake new investors make is leading with a deal—trying to “sell” someone before they’ve even shown interest or understand private lending. Jay Conner compares this to a doctor prescribing medication before making a diagnosis. Instead, he recommends first having a diagnosis conversation with potential lenders. Ask open, gentle questions like, “Are you investing in anything that’s giving you a high rate of return safely and securely?”
If their answer reveals dissatisfaction with current returns, only then do you segue into what Private Money is—and crucially, you don’t pitch a deal. Instead, provide value and educate. Jay Conner even suggests using a 16-minute audio overview to let potential lenders understand the process at their own pace.
Program, Not Pitch—The Professional Approach
Another pitfall is not being ready with a clear, written program. When talking to a potential lender, you must be able to articulate your offer: What is the interest rate? How is their money protected? What’s your loan-to-value ratio? Can they get money back early in an emergency? Jay Conner has 20 program points he covers with every new contact. This professionalism sets you apart from amateurs who seem desperate or uncertain.
Building Trust—Leverage and Coaching
If you’re brand new to investing, don’t fret. Jay Conner recommends leveraging a business partner’s or coach’s experience to boost your credibility. Say truthfully, “My partner and I have flipped over 500 homes”—as many in his network do—so your lenders are putting trust in your support system as much as you.
He strongly recommends coaching, recounting that he lost hundreds of thousands of dollars before getting a mentor. In his words, “If you think coaching is expensive, try a different kind of education.” Learning from others’ mistakes is far cheaper and less painful.
Timestamps:
00:00 Real estate investing and bus tour
03:11 Introducing Jay Conner
06:55 Private vs. hard money loans
12:56 Discussing loan repayment terms
15:14 Discussing Private Money and real estate
18:57 Discussing Jay's program offering
21:27 Promoting the bus tour event
23:21 Discussing a Private Money program
26:41 Jay Conner's Private Money insights
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Have you read Jay’s new book, Where to Get the Money Now?
It is available FREE (all you pay is the shipping and handling) at https://www.JayConner.com/Book
What is Private Money? Real Estate Investing with Jay Conner
http://www.JayConner.com/MoneyPodcast
Jay Conner is a proven leader in real estate investing. Without using his own money or credit, Jay maximizes creative methods to buy and sell properties with profits averaging $86,000 per deal.
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